Do all things without complaining and disputing, that you may become blameless and harmless, children of God without fault in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world,
–Philippians 2:14-15 (NKJV)
What makes Christians different from unbelievers? A lot! When you talk like an unbeliever you give God no power in your life. In fact, you open yourself up to the forces of hell. When you speak Gods Word in your daily life, you give God something to work with.
We should be passionately positive when we deal with people. While unbelievers have the opportunity to exist along side is on the earth, you have a chance to be the light of God in their lives.
Don’t let yourself sink to the low levels of this world. The world becomes more perverse, more vulgar, and dark. You, shining the light of the Good News of Jesus the Lord, will blow away the worlds darkness where you are. Whenever you feel like complaining, just hold you tongue and turn that thought into something positive. That connects you with God and disconnects you from the messes around you.
If you don’t know what to say just praise God. Say, “Father I thank you for this great day and that YOU are blessing me above and beyond what I could ever ask or imagine. I praise Your Holy Name.”