The Japanese, Sex And Family

The Japanese, Sex And Family

With a topic like sex, I am sure we’ve got your attention. In Japan, sex is a youthful thing. There is really no Judeo-Christian standard of sex being something being saved for marriage. But it is definitely not something two young people do at home. A whole industry sprung up called ‘love hotels’. More appropriately, they should be called sex hotels as they are just designed to give people a room to do something that husbands and wives are usually doing at home.

What has happened a lot in the Japanese society is pre-marital sex has been rampant. Youth have gotten pregnant and gotten married (which is a heck of a lot better than killing the baby through having an abortion which does happen) to take account for their actions. There is some abortion of babies as abortion in Japan is the lazy form of ‘birth-control`.

Young Japanese Family

Once married the young couple ends up raising their children. Traditionally the Japanese wife stays at home with the family while the husband goes to work. Usually, the wife controls the bank account and budgets for the family. Unlike other countries, Japan does not allow joint bank accounts.

As time passes, the parents are focused on their kids but not too much on their relationships with each other. Many times the relationship goes cold as love is something that needs to be cherished and developed. When the children leave the home, the parents don’t have that much to talk about. Divorce in general has been taboo, but with laws are changing where wives can get half of their husbands worth.

In Japan, there are many Japanese married to foreigners. Many Japanese men married to foreign women, and many Japanese women married to western men. In general, ladies from the Philippines are known for looking after their usually aging husbands better than Japanese women. At the same time, American men are known for treating Japanese women better as there is the cultural sense of chivalry that American tend to have. For example, opening the door, walking behind the lady, giving her attention that a Japanese guy would usually not give.

One interesting phenomenon we have seen with many Japanese women married to Westerners is related directly to sex. American couples usually have very active sex lives. However, after a few years of marriage Japanese women tend to start to withhold themselves from their husbands. We have even heard of Japanese wives telling their western husbands if they want to have sex so often then they should ‘get a girlfriend’. How pathetic!

Men have a very strong sex drive and withholding yourself from your husband is very harmful to a marriage and the family as a whole. Of course, if the drive is out of your marriage then you need to do something about it. What can a husband and wife do to make their marriage deeper?

More next entry…

Seven Things That Bring Increase

God wants you to prosper.  God wants you to increase.  But to increase in this world according to God’s plan you have to keep a few things in mind.  Seven things that bring increase are

1) Walking In Truth (Holiness)

The Word says to seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, and then all these things shall be added to you.  You have to keep your life holy and right before God.

2) Faithfulness
Proverbs- A faithful man shall abound with blessings. If you are faithful to your church, faithful to spending time with God, faithful to the family of believers, then you are in a position to be blessed.

3) Diligence

About the Word of God.  If you want to increase you have to be diligent.  You have to be in the Word today.  You can’t live off of what the energy, guidance, and revelations you got from Father God yesterday.

4) Tithing
The basis for financial breakthrough.  I have never met a cheerful tither who wasn’t blessed.  I have met many people not tithing who were in financial shipwreck.  Honor God with the firstfruits of your income and He will honor you back.

5) Sowing
Give and it shall be given to you.  God is the number one giver.  For God so loved the World that He GAVE.  If you want to be blessed you’ve got to remember you are tithing 10% of your income to your local church, but really all of what you have belongs to Him.  Also, you can’t be afraid to give to others.  Time, effort, money, love, care, a listening ear… people need to know that God cares and we are His human hands and feet on this earth right now.

6) Believing

Abraham believed God and it was credited to him as righteousness.  If you do not believe the good news God has planned for you, don’t expect much to happen.  But if you believe, you release the power of God to act in your life.  What?  That’s right, when you believed that Jesus the Messiah was your Savior and accepted Him, and believed the work he did for you then you were saved.

7) Saying

This is probably where most believers blow it.  They believe initially but then what they say after wards changes what they have said.  I believe God is going to get me free from this credit card debt.  But after praying that and believing that in church, they start saying things like I don’t know how God is going to get us out of this debt… Faith is saying what you expect not what you have.  Everyone knows what you have.  But you want to set your expectation according to God’s Word and walk in the increase He has for you.

Posted on 25 July, 2007

If your neighbor hates you, give him land

That is exactly what is going on in the Arab-Israeli conflict. Israeli is being pressured by outside governments (US, Russia, EU) to give the Palestinians control of the land of Israeli.

This is a very short-sighted solution for an age old conflict.

This week we read about Tony Blair’s next job and his priority of ‘making a Palestinian state’. The whole situation is actually quite confusing to a person just trying to understand the situation. Norma Parrish Archbold in her book, “The Mountains of Israel” makes some very interesting points. If you don’t understand the history, you wouldn’t know that Palestine was actually created by the British. Jordan is a result of much of that.

Ms. Archbold makes it very clear that she believes that there is already a Palestinian state. If the terrorists want their own place to operate, then they should move to Jordan. She makes it also clear that Israel should never give any land because the land is an intrinsic part of Israel.

More on this.

The Mission Message- Single and Concise

Can everything your organization stands for be boiled down into a single concise message? It can, and it should be. At least if you want people to make a heart connection with it.

Jesus knew this. On one occasion some scholars asked him to summarize the entire Old Testament. Jesus was able to do so on the spot. He said the entire law can be boiled down to this: “Love God with all your heart and love your neighbor as yourself.”

My question for you is: “Do you have a clear, concise message with which your staff and customers can connect?”

-Mac Hammond

Scriptures To Get Your Healing With

Isa 53:3-5
3 He is despised and rejected by men,
A Man of sorrows and acquainted with grief.
And we hid, as it were, our faces from Him;
He was despised, and we did not esteem Him.
4 Surely He has borne our griefs
And carried our sorrows;
Yet we esteemed Him stricken,
Smitten by God, and afflicted.
5 But He was wounded for our transgressions,
He was bruised for our iniquities;
The chastisement for our peace was upon Him,
And by His stripes we are healed. NKJV

1 Peter 2:24
24 who Himself bore our sins in His own body on the tree, that we, having died to sins, might live for righteousness ?by whose stripes you were healed.?NKJV

Matt 8:17
17 that it might be fulfilled which was spoken by Isaiah the prophet, saying:
“He Himself took our infirmities
And bore our sicknesses.” NKJV

Prov 4:20-22
20 My son, give attention to my words;
Incline your ear to my sayings.
21 Do not let them depart from your eyes;
Keep them in the midst of your heart;
22 For they are life to those who find them,
And health to all their flesh. ?NKJV

Ps 19:7
7 The law of the Lord is perfect, converting the soul;
The testimony of the Lord is sure, making wise the simple; NKJV

1 John 3:8
8 He who sins is of the devil, for the devil has sinned from the beginning. For this purpose the Son of God was manifested, that He might destroy the works of the devil.??NKJV

John 10:10
10 The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly. NKJV

Supporting Scriptures

Ps 103:1-5
Bless the Lord, O my soul;
And all that is within me, bless His holy name!
2 Bless the Lord, O my soul,
And forget not all His benefits:
3 Who forgives all your iniquities,
Who heals all your diseases,
4 Who redeems your life from destruction,
Who crowns you with lovingkindness and tender mercies,
5 Who satisfies your mouth with good things,
So that your youth is renewed like the eagle’s.  NKJV

1 Thess 5:23-24
Now may the God of peace Himself sanctify you completely; and may your whole spirit, soul, and body be preserved blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. 24 He who calls you is faithful, who also will do it. NKJV

Ps 107:20
20 He sent His word and healed them,
And delivered them from their destructions.  NKJV

Ex 23:25
25 “So you shall serve the Lord your God, and He will bless your bread and your water. And I will take sickness away from the midst of you.  NKJV

Ex 15:26
26 and said,”If you diligently heed the voice of the Lord your God and do what is right in His sight, give ear to His commandments and keep all His statutes, I will put none of the diseases on you which I have brought on the Egyptians. For I am the Lord who heals you.” NKJV

Jer 30:17
17 For I will restore health to you
And heal you of your wounds,’ says the Lord,
‘Because they called you an outcast saying:
“This is Zion;
No one seeks her.”’ NKJV

Ps 105:37
37 He also brought them out with silver and gold,
And there was none feeble among His tribes.  NKJV

Deut 7:15
15 And the Lord will take away from you all sickness, and will afflict you with none of the terrible diseases of Egypt which you have known, but will lay them on all those who hate you.  NKJV

Matt 4:23-24
And Jesus went about all Galilee, teaching in their synagogues, preaching the gospel of the kingdom, and healing all kinds of sickness and all kinds of disease among the people.  NKJV

Matt 8:16-17
When evening had come, they brought to Him many who were demon-possessed. And He cast out the spirits with a word, and healed all who were sick, 17 that it might be fulfilled which was spoken by Isaiah the prophet, saying:
“He Himself took our infirmities
And bore our sicknesses.” NKJV

Matt 9:35
Then Jesus went about all the cities and villages, teaching in their synagogues, preaching the gospel of the kingdom, and healing every sickness and every disease among the people. NKJV

Posted on 27 May, 2007

Overflowing With The Favor of God

Prov 3:3,4

3 Let not mercy and truth forsake you;
Bind them around your neck,
Write them on the tablet of your heart,
4 And so find favor and high esteem
In the sight of God and man.  NKJV

As you study, meditate and pray the Word of God you will see differences in your life and God will bring honor to you.  You r relationship with God directly affects your relationship with others.  How do you develop your relationship with God?

By spending time reading, praying, and meditating His Word.  The best model for prayer is modeled after the word Psalm.
Praise – Enter God’s presence with praise and thank Him for your great family, health, growing influence and His works in your live
Surrender- Surrender everything to Him.  All of your worries, cares, temptations… everything to Him.
Ask- Ask Him for what you need.
Listen- Listen to what He has to say.  (This is the best part)
Meditate- Meditate on His Word.  What does meditate mean?  It means to think about or think on.

As you follow this simple model, your prayer life will be energized.  Then you will find favor with people around you.  But more importantly, favor with God.  When you are walking in the favor of God, nothing can stop you.

Posted on 24 May, 2007

Long Lives and Heavenly Peace- The Favor of God

Is the favor of God operating in your life?  If not, then you should check why.  God has an awesome plan for you.  He wants you to live a long and peaceful life.

Prov 3:1,2
My son, do not forget my law,
But let your heart keep my commands;
2 For length of days and long life
And peace they will add to you.  NKJV

The key is, we need to stay in His Word.  As we stay in meditate, pray, and study His Word our spirits become more in tune with God and His ways.  We will know exactly what direction he has for our lives.  Whether we are to start a business, or work for another.  Whether to marry some particular person or keep them as a good friend, God knows exactly what is right for us.

According to Proverbs 3:1,2, if we keep His Word, he will give us longer more productive days, a longer life, and lots of heavenly peace. Peace that people cannot understand.  When the world is caving in around people losing their jobs, having marital trouble, not knowing what to do for their children we know exactly what to do.  We know His Word, and we know His peace.  Live long and live strong.  What a testimony of God’s goodness in our lives.  Hallelujah!

A New Hitler? Transcript from

Below is a transcript from a recent CUFI newsletter. In undergraduate work I studied political science. As I look at Iran of today, it is a very urgent situation that needs to be remedied. How exactly? I am thinking about this and I am sure so are those governments who represent goodness and peace.

This information is something you wouldn’t normally see in the news.


april 16, 2007


Iran Plans to Build Two More Nuclear Power Plants

On Sunday, the deputy head of Iran’s Atomic Energy Organization, Ahmad Fayyazbakhsh, announced that Iran plans to build two more nuclear power plants.

These two power plants are in addition to the 40-megawatt heavy water reactor that Iran is already building and the 360-megawatt nuclear power plant that it is preparing to build.

It was also reported on Sunday that Iran has been training Iraqi Shias in secret terrorist training camps near Teheran. Thousands of Shia are being taught “advanced guerrilla warfare” in order to “attack Americans” in preparation for “their big battle with the occupiers.” According to the report, the Shia are being taught to how to destroy armored vehicles, shoot down helicopters, and utilize explosive materials. (The Associate Press, April 15, 2007).


Israeli security sources reported that Hamas is providing the Islamic Jihad with Qassam rockets.

These Israeli security sources stated that “Hamas is emerging as the lynchpin of Palestinian terrorist activities against Israel.”

This terrorist alliance enables Hamas, which is part of the Palestinian unity government, to publicly support the current cease-fire while simultaneously continuing to attack Israel through the Islamic Jihad.

It is now believed that the rockets used by the Islamic Jihad to attack Ashkelon on June 18, 2006 were provided by Hamas. (Ze’ev Schiff and Avi Issacharoff, Haaretz, April 14, 2007)

iran trains thousands of iraqi insurgents !

Thousands of Iraqi Shias in the Mahdi Army, loyal to cleric Moqtada al-Sadr, are being trained in advanced guerrilla warfare tactics at a secret camp in Jalil Azad, near Tehran, according to militants who say they have spent time there.

Abu Amer, 39, said he had been trained by instructors he believed were from Iran’s Revolutionary Guard. (Phil Sands Independent-UK)

Anti-Semitic Attacks Increased by 50% in 2006
Tel Aviv University reports that worldwide Anti-Semitic attacks increased by 50% in 2006.

In comparison to 2005, attacks on Jewish schools increased by 50% and attacks on synagogues increased by a third.

Britain, Australia, France, and Canada witnessed the starkest increase in anti-Semitic attacks. 2006 marked a 20-year high for anti-Semitic incidents in Britain.

“For I will take you out of the nations; I will gather you from all the countries and bring you back into your own land”. Ezekiel 36:24

On a positive note, in 2006 anti-Semitic attacks in the United States decreased by 12%. (The Jerusalem Post, April 15, 2007)

The 2007 Passover Miracle
A massive Hamas terrorist attack that was planned to kill hundreds of Israelis during their Passover Seders in Tel Aviv was averted.

Israeli security spokespeople reported that a Hamas terrorist drove into Tel Aviv in a car with 220 pounds of explosives and large amounts of shrapnel. It is unclear why instead of detonating the explosives the terrorist turned around and drove back to Kalkilyeh where the car exploded in a “work accident.” (Gil Ronen and Hillel Fendel. Israel National News, April 10, 2007)

Message from John Hagee

Yesterday, Jewish communities around the world commemorated the horrors of the Holocaust with prayers and services in observance of Yom Ha’Shoah (Holocaust Remembrance Day).

Yom Ha’Shoah refocuses us on the need to do more than just say never again, but to take action to ensure never again.

Today there is a new Hitler in the Middle East – President Ahmadinejad of Iran — who has threatened to wipe out both Israel and America. Iran is rapidly acquiring the nuclear technology with which to make good on President Ahmadinejad’s threat. If we learned anything from the Holocaust, it is that when a madman threatens genocide, we must take him seriously.

During the Holocaust, too many Christians were silent, and we were left to mourn the slaughter of 6 million Jews. Today, Bible-believing Christians must speak up and stand up for Israel. We must act to do whatever we can to protect Israel’s 6 million Jews from the second Holocaust that has been threatened. We must get it right this time. Our faith demands it. The times demand it. Silence is not an option.

We as Christians have an opportunity to help ensure that another Holocaust does not happen on our watch. To make your voice heard you can me and thousands of other Christians from around America in Washington, DC July 16 to 19 at the second annual Christians United for Israel Washington/Israel Summit. You will have the opportunity to share your concern about Iran’s nuclear plans with your member of Congress. You will have an opportunity to fulfill Isaiah 62:1 which says, “For Zion’s sake I will not keep silent; for Jerusalem’s sake I will not remain quiet…” and stand in support of Israel.

John Hagee

Build Your Confidence

Josh 1:6
6 “ Be strong and courageous, for you shall give this people possession of the land which I swore to their fathers to give them. NASU

Josh 1:8-9
8 This Book of the Law shall not depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate in it day and night, that you may observe to do according to all that is written in it. For then you will make your way prosperous, and then you will have good success. NKJV

In Joshua, the children of God are told to be strong and courageous.  In other words they’re told to be confident.  In this day and age we live in, Christians are God’s children because they believe him and called on His name (Ro. 10:8,9) God wants us to be confident and strong.  Some well-meaning, but ignorant, people who call themselves Christians tell others things like the ‘meek shall inherit the earth’ and get people to associate meek with weak.  If you look at that scripture you will realize that meek means ‘mild, humble, or self-controlled’ not weak.  People who are emotional fireballs will not inherit the earth.

God wants you to be confident and strong.  How do you build confidence.

1) Your Talk

What are you talking about?  Are you saying the things that God wants your to say or are you saying what God says about you.  Joshua was to keep the Word of God in his mouth day and night.  Faith is not saying what you have, everyone knows that.  Faith is saying what you expect.  If you want to build confidence you have to change the way you talk.  You have to say things like, ‘I am successful, I am blessed, I am a child of the most high God, what I do prospers in the Name of Jesus the Anointed.”

2) Your Walk

Your walk is your day by day, step by step, actions.  What are you doing every day?  Proverbs 12:5 says that thoughts of the just are right.  If you want to build your confidence you have to put your talk into action with your walk.  Don’t just say it.  Do it.  Your walk is your actions behind what you say.

3) Your Environment

Your environment is very important to building your confidence.  If you have just overcome alcoholism, then the last thing you want to do is go to a bar.  Don’t put yourself around ‘friends’ that are just going to pull you back into that ungodly lifestyle.  Don’t listen to the same music and watch the same movies that got you into the mess in the first place.

During my undergraduate work at University, I watched far too many movies.  As a young college kid, I remember leaving high school as a strong believer.  But in college I started accepting ideas that were promoted in the movies.  At one point, I caught myself starting to slipping down to think that sex before marriage was not as bad as I had thought.  So although it was something I knew I shouldn’t do, it must be okay for everyone because there was a sex scene in just about every movie I saw. I realized that because I had spent so much time in the movie theaters, that Friday night ‘rest and relaxation’ was beginning to affect my standards.  My standard was beginning to slip to the world’s low standard.  You’ve got to watch out where you hang around.

4) Your Relationship With God

Of course, your talk, your walk and your environment are all important in building confidence.  However, one of the most important areas is your relationship with God.  You can have all the action in your life that any super-christian has in your daily life, but still completely miss God.  Going to church, spending time with Christians, singing praise and worship songs in your car on the way to work; all this is good but without that God relationship, you are lost and going to hell.  Make time every morning to get before God.  Read the word, pray, listen to His voice as He directs according to His Word.
If you follow these four points, you will find your confidence built strong.

Confidence in yourself is one thing; however, confidence in yourself founded on God’s Word is confidence that will never, ever fail you.

Posted on 17 March, 2007

Something Greater

Acts 8:13
13 Then Simon himself also believed; and when he was baptized he continued with Philip, and was amazed, seeing the miracles and signs which were done. NKJV

In the days of the early church, just as now, there were people dabbling in the power of the devil.  They could do all sorts of magical things through the power of darkness.  This power is real.  There was one man named Simon who was able to work in witchcraft and had the local people’s respect from young to old people.

1 John 4:4 tells us that great is He who is in us than he who is in the world.  Simon who had everyone’s attention and respect for having this magical power saw something greater.  He saw Philip come in to Samaria, preach the Word with signs and wonders.  He saw people healed of sickness and disease.  He saw demons flee at the mighty name of Jesus.  He saw something greater.  He saw something that he knew he didn’t have and he wanted that power.  He wanted that joy.  He wanted that peace and victory that only comes through the Mighty Name of Jesus the Anointed One.

Simon knew the power of darkness, but he knew it was shallow and unfulfilling because it wasn’t from the God of Light, it was from darkness.  Simon accepted Jesus as his Savior that day through the ministry of Philip.  He not only accepted Jesus and confessed His name. Verse 13 says he continued with Philip.  He hung around.  I can just picture him following Philip wherever he went.  He didn’t just get something and go, he go something and wanted more.

Just like the rest of us, Simon was human.  Once you are saved you have to work at changing your way of thinkjing (Romans 12:2) from your old ways to God’s ways.  When Simon saw people receiving the Holy Spirit of God by the laying on of hands in verse 19 he wanted to be able to do the same thing.  Before he knew God, he could buy things. At that point, he temporarily reverted to his old ways. He thought he could buy the gift of imparting the Holy Spirit.  Peter was upset with him for thinking this way, but Simon knew there was something greater than anything he had ever done through the power of darkness working before him.  He knew that God was in this and he wanted to be a part of it.

God has something greater for you.  Maybe you are in a job that you don’t like.  Maybe you are in a financial situation that is below the Biblical prosperity God has for you.  Maybe you have got everything you could possible have but you still feel empty.  That is because we all need something greater.  Humanism, socialism, politics, environmentalism, relationships, drugs, music, sports; nothing can fill our built-in desire to know God.  But more importantly, we shouldn’t just stop at meeting God.  In John 10:10, Jesus said “I have come that you may have life, and have it more abundantly.” It is pretty clear there are two choices here.  One is to have eternal life.  The other is to have it more abundantly.

Don’t settle for what you have now, go for something greater.  Go deeper with the Almighty God.  You will never be disappointed.  But more importantly, you will always be satisfied in a relationship with God.  The Almighty God is a god of abundance!

Father God, I thank you for the great plans you have for me.  I thank you that you love me and died for me.  I want to know you deeper and know your ways.  I want to walk in that same faith and power that Philip walked in.  I don’t want to be a conformer, I want to be a world changer.  Holy Spirit, guide me and direct me.  Help me to be sensitive to your plan, will, and calling for me and make it come to pass.  In the Mighty Name of Jesus.  Amen.

Posted on 12 February, 2007